Thank you everyone for your kind thoughts. At his father's request, we are keeping the burial as a very small family only event. He will laid to rest with his mum. There will be a celebration of Alan's life to follow later this month in the garden of his home. Please contact one of us for details if you'd like to attend. With many thanks, John, Sarai, Sean and Graham.

Thank you for setting up this memorial to Alan. We hope that you find it a positive experience developing the site and that it becomes a place of comfort and inspiration for you to visit whenever you want or need to.

I am I and you are you, whatever we were to each other that we still are. Speak to me in the easy way which you always used. Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight? Life means all that it ever meant, it is the same as it ever was.